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They Make You Who You Are Today

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I know people who feel like they’ve wasted years of their lives because of poor choices . They spent years in a relationship that was toxic , years with an addiction , years at a job where they weren’t fulfilled . But you have to realize , nothing you have been through is ever wasted . Your past experiences, good and bad have deposited something on the inside of you. Those challenges have sharpened you, to make who you are today. My experiences did teach me to be more discerning about things in my life and has helped me to teach my grandchildren to strive for their dreams and be a good person and treat others with respect. Also to remember not to set goals that you can’t possibly reach. Set mini goals and each time you reach those goals it will bring you closer to the main goal. Life may throw curve balls at you delaying progress. Our motto is improvise, adapt and overcome. Never give up. The most important thing is to thank God and...

It's ok to cry if you're in pain

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It's ok to cry if you're in pain . Remember , tears are prayers too . They travel to God , when we can't speak . “ It's so hard to forget pain , but it's even harder to remember sweetness . We have no scar to show for happiness . We learn so little from peace .” ― Chuck Palahniuk , Diary “ Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it .” ― J.K. Rowling , Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire

Hold On or Let go

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We are often let down by the most trusted people and loved by the most unexpected ones . Some make us cry for things that we haven’t done , while others ignore our faults and just see our smile . Some leave us when we need them the most , while some stay with us even when ask them to leave . The world is a mixture of people . We just need to know which hand to shake and which hand to hold ! After all that’s life , learning to hold on and learning to let go .

Meaning of Best Friends

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A best friend is someone you can call anytime , just to laugh , cry , complain , or tell silly stories and still listens . My best friend is the most important girl , outside of family , to me . I met her when I went to college and we bonded immediately . I'd do anything for her at any time . We phone each other every day .~ Dawn French Your sweetheart calls you by another's name . His eyes linger too long on your best friend. He talks with excitement about a girl at work. And the fire catches . Jealousy - that sickening combination of possessiveness , suspicion , rage , and humiliation - can overtake your mind and threaten your very core as you contemplate your rival.~ Helen Fisher Everyone is your best friend when you are successful. Make sure that the people that you surround yourself with are also the people that you are not afraid of failing with.~ Paula Abdul

Has Our Generation Actually Forgotten How To Love Someone?

Amidst grabbing those dream jobs, working our asses off, telling the world what's on our minds, and trying to socialise with a bazillion people, our generation seems to have forgotten to do this one really important thing that is as important as life itself - love. Before you shun this piece calling it a lonely single woman's rant, let me take you around this. Are you still with me? Okay then. 1. We are available, but never really available. We are out there - on social media websites, on dating apps, at parties, but all this while, are we really available? Not so much. We hide our inhibitions and are scared out of our wits. 2. It has become all about the 'chase.' And once that ends, everything ends. Meet someone new. Exchange numbers. Late-night conversations. Question-answer games. Ask out. Dates. Lose interest. Meet someone new. Exchange numbers. Late-night conversations.... We know the drill all too well, don't we? 3. We can't deal with flaws and look...

Anybody can love your looks

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Anybody can love your looks , but it's your heart and personality that makes someone stay with you . Keep love in your heart . A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead .~ Oscar Wilde Love myself I do . Not everything , but I love the good as well as the bad . I love my crazy lifestyle , and I love my hard discipline . I love my freedom of speech and the way my eyes get dark when I'm tired . I love that I have learned to trust people with my heart , even if it will get broken . I am proud of everything that I am and will become .~ Johnny Weir

I’m moving on

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You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won’t happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, “I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.” ~ Joel Osteen I think the hardest part about moving forward is not looking back.And to be successful, you must be yourself, be the best that you can be, pick up from the mistakes you've done and move on because we all make mistakes, we all make the wrong choices, but we move on. And we learn from our mistakes.

Cannot prove myself

Today....!! I'm going to proove my self, by starting my day. I wake up early in the morning as usual, making tea for my family memebers. And then I sit and start exploring myself. I'm in high school. My name is Mayank. I AM SIMPLE YET SMART;) A BEST FRIEND ONE CAN HAVE ,I am a kind of person who can reach any height to achieve what I want, but it must be a burning desire! Even in a relationship-let it be being a son,friend or a boyfriend-I would give my 101% and would always make my loved ones feel special when they are with me, since I believe that everybody deserves something or the other, so why don’t we act as GODSENT servants for each of our fellow human beings? Something that is most dear to me is myself-respect and I can afford to lose anything at the cost of it! I Hate people who don’t respect other, the ones who back-stab and of course, I hate people who try to mould their personality-just to be like someone else, I like originality and loyalty with...