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“Sensitive people

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“Sensitive people are the most genuine and honest people you will ever meet. There is nothing they won’t tell you about themselves if they trust your kindness. However, the moment you betray them, reject them or devalue them, they will end the friendship. They live with guilt and constant pain over unresolved situations and misunderstandings. They are tortured souls that are not able to live with hatred or being hated. This type of person needs the most love anyone can give them because their soul has been constantly bruised by others. However, despite the tragedy of what they have to go through in life, they remain the most compassionate people worth knowing and the ones that often become activists for the broken-hearted, forgotten and the misunderstood. They are angels with broken wings that only fly when loved.” ― Shannon L. Alder

Love is like a rubber band held at both ends by two people.

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Love is like a rubber band held at both ends by two people. When one leaves It Hurts other. The more we stretch,the more it pains,so don’t try to go away from your partner. ~ Sarbjit Saundh When I feel like I’m not wanted and wasting me time, I leave. If I was important to you, you wouldn’t let me walk out the door. ~ Tracey Smit

Merry Christmas

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Unlock The Door Unlock the door of your heart Enter the gentleness within. Open the window of your soul Breathe in the season of miracles. No matter how far you’ve traveled, It’s time to come home now,

Merry Christmas Wishes:

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Happiness – May your life be filled with joy and happiness and may each new day bring you moments to cherish. Love – On this joyous day, and throughout the new year, may your life be filled with an abundance of love. Fulfillment –Merry Christmas and may you live a long and happy life filled with goodwill and friendship. Peace – May this new year bring you peace and tranquility, and as you walk your path may it bring you contentment. Prosperity –On this joyous day, and throughout the coming year, may your life be filled with good luck and prosperity. Friendship – I hope you know how much I value your friendship. I wish you a very merry Christmas and may we enjoy many more years together as friends. Joy of Giving – May your heart be filled with the joy of giving, as it is the expression of the love in your heart and the kindness in your soul. Blessings –May the light of love shine upon you, and may your life be filled with blessings in this Christmas season. Kin

When you delete the unnecessary people from Life

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When you delete the unnecessary people from your life, good things will start happening for you & it won’t be a coincidence. I don't believe that if you do good, good things will happen. Everything is completely accidental and random. Sometimes bad things happen to very good people and sometimes good things happen to bad people. But at least if you try to do good things, then you're spending your time doing something worthwhile.~ Helen Mirren I have lived pain, and my life can tell: I only deepen the wound of the world when I neglect to give thanks the heavy perfume of wild roses in early July and the song of crickets on summer humid nights and the rivers that run and the stars that rise and the rain that falls and all the good things that a good God gives.~ Ann Voskamp I did this, to the person who I called my best friend for many years and things are already noticeably getting better in my life. I have to admit it was hard for awhile. But I see now

“I've never fooled anyone. I've let people fool themselves

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The less you respond to rude, critical, argumentative people, the more peaceful your life will become.~ Mandy hale “I've never fooled anyone. I've let people fool themselves. They didn't bother to find out who and what I was. Instead they would invent a character for me. I wouldn't argue with them. They were obviously loving somebody I wasn't.” ~ Marilyn Monroe “And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.” ~ Haruki Murakami

Telling people you're tired

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I get mad. I get sad. I have all those emotions. But I just like to keep them to myself. I don't think my fans need to be bothered with if I'm mad or sad about something. I should just be concerned that they are keeping up with my music or I'm making them happy with my show.~ Demi Lovato Some days are just bad days, that's all. You have to experience sadness to know happiness, and I remind myself that not every day is going to be a good day, that's just the way it is!~ Dita Von Teese

Sometimes you have to accept the truth

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Sometimes you have to accept the truth and stop wasting time on the wrong people. “There's never enough time to do all the nothing you want.” ― Bill Watterson “Clocks slay time... time is dead as long as it is being clicked off by little wheels; only when the clock stops does time come to life.” ― William Faulkner, The Sound and the Fury “Your time is way too valuable to be wasting on people that can't accept who you are.” ― Turcois Ominek

People are on your mind for one reason or another

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There are experiences in life we look back on and experience grief. We do make mistakes and the consequences can be very painful. The pain is part of the healing. Slowly we reach inside and build the strength and courage to move forward with trust that armed with our new wisdom and growth we will face the future in such a manner that we will attract new and better experiences and people into our lives. The past cannot be changed but it never has to be re-lived. ~ Troy God moves in a mysterious way, His wonders to perform. He plants his footsteps in the sea, and rides upon the storm.~ William Cowper People are on your mind for one reason or another. Some to whisper a prayer for them, some to send positive thoughts their way, and some because they’re thinking about you, too. ~ Cynthia Webb

“Nobody can hurt me without my permission.”

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“You will know you made the right decision when you pick the hardest and most painful choice but your heart is at peace.” We feel inner peace, we become more loving, giving, hope-filled. We become less focused on our needs and concerns & more focused on what’s Godly. This will make you realize that you made the right decision. ~ B. Rosaflor “Nobody can hurt me without my permission.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi “We don't realize that, somewhere within us all, there does exist a supreme self who is eternally at peace.” ~ Elizabeth Gilbert Sometimes others don’t understand why you make the choice that you make but this says it all. ~ Gina Robbins

In a controversy the instant we feel anger we have already ceased striving for the truth, and have begun striving for ourselves.

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Anger is defending oneself when you feel threatened. Any time you have an outburst, just ask yourself what you fear losing and be honest with yourself, even if it makes you cry, then tell yourself your mind is mistakenly telling you have much less control over your situation than you actually do, and work toward self control. It’s the only thing you can really control. To the situations you can’t control, give everything you can, build the world you want to see, acquire skills to improve your life and the lives of people around you. Feed the hopes, not the fears. ~ Oliva Sullen Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.~ Mark Twain We cannot see our own faults. So when others point them out we should pay attention and be grateful and we should not be too eager to see the weaknesses in others. ~ Gurmel Singh Anybody can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to t

Technology

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One man went to a laptop Sales & Service Shop with anger and threw his new laptop on the desk at a Salesman from whom he bought. he told the salesman that you have cheated me. I cannot transfer file from my previous Computer to Laptop.. Salesman : Sir, can you please try in front of me. This is what he did, 1) Right clicked the mouse on the file which he wanted to transfer and selected CUT option. 2) Then he Disconnected the mouse from that Computer. 3) Took that mouse carefully and connected into the Newly Purchased Laptop where she wanted to copy that file. 4) Right clicked the mouse and selected the PASTE option . . . Salesman DIED.

Respect people

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Respect people who find time for you in their busy schedule. But love people who never look at their schedule when you need them. Somebody needs respect! I respect at all and I appreciate to be respected!!! -

DID YoU Know??

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1. Your shoes are the first thing people subconsciously notice about you. Wear nice shoes. 2. If you sit for more than 11 hours a day, there’s a 50% chance you’ll die within the next 3 years 3. There are at least 6 people in the world who look exactly like you. There’s a 9% chance that you’ll meet one of them in your lifetime. 4. Sleeping without a pillow reduces back pain and keeps your spine stronger. 5. A person’s height is determined by their father, and their weight is determined by their mother.6. If a part of your body “falls asleep”, you can almost always “wake it up” by shaking your head. 7. There are three things the human brain cannot resist noticing – Food, attractive people and danger 8. Right-handed people tend to chew food on their right side 9. Putting dry tea bags in gym bags or smelly shoes will absorb the unpleasant odour. 10. According to Albert Einstein, if honey bees were to disappear from earth, humans would be dead within 4 years. 11. T

Family Farming: “Feeding the world, caring for the earth”

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Eating is not merely a material pleasure. Eating well gives a spectacular joy to life and contributes immensely to goodwill and happy companionship. It is of great importance to the morale.

Why many Relationships end?

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A lot of relationships end because someone needs to break away from the facade that they were ever owned. You can earn someone’s trust, you can become a part of their precious time, but you don’t get someone. Nobody wants to be owned and anyone can tell when they’re being used, and that’s usually when someone will break away. If two or more people find themselves in each other’s company and that life is meaningful for all parties, a relationship will thrive. It ends when someone believes they own your time, or that you owe them yours. Just be yourself, and don’t go out of your way to trick someone into wanting to be around you, and don’t go around treating someone like they deserve you based on their efforts. Don’t go complicating pure love, it should be effortless. ~ Oliva Sullen If someone does not treat you well don’t waste your time on feeling bad. Love yourself enough to move on. People only treat you bad if you allow them to do it. Life is too short to be wit

Life is like a piano

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Life is like a piano: the white keys represent happiness, the black keys show sadness. But as you go through life’s journey, remember that the black keys make music too. Its the happiness that gives meaning to the sadness and its the sadness that gives meaning to happiness too. They complement each other. They are the two sides of the same coin. They both combined create the beautiful song called Life.

Perfect Partners Can Be Imperfect

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A perfect partner is not just someone who looks good when he walks with you or stands next to you or someone who just looks good with you in your wedding album or in your selfies. I think a perfect partner is the one with whom you can share all your secrets and your dreams and fantasies without any hesitation. Someone with whom who can shed your inhibitions and overcome your fears .Someone with whom you can be completely stupid and crazy. Someone with whom you can enjoy silly jokes, cartoon movies and pillow fights. Someone with whom you can make marshmallows, bake cookies, burn cookies and then eat the burnt cookies too. Someone with whom you can sit under the sky and wait to make wishes on a shooting star. Someone with whom you can share your tears and your laughter and someone who can turn your frowns into smiles in a jiffy. Someone with whom you can fight and then kiss and make up before going to bed. Someone who is by your side during your ups and downs and

I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you.

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I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. And it’s not the end of the world.

Still stand strong together…

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Relationships aren’t perfect. Perfection is when you and I can go through anything and still stand strong together. Nothing is perfect. Life is messy. Relationships are complex. Outcomes are uncertain. People are irrational.- Hugh Mackay You don't develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.- Epicurus Relationships are eternal. The 'separation' is another chapter in the relationship. Often, letting go of the old form of the relationship becomes a lesson in pure love much deeper than any would have learned had the couple stayed together.- Marianne Williamson The basic problem with my love relationships with women is that my standards are so high - and they apply equally to both of us. I seek full-blast mutual intensity, fully fledged mutual acceptance, full-blown mutual flourishing, and fully felt peace and joy with each other. This requires a level of physical

How do you move on ?

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Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself. - Walter Anderson You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don't try to forget the mistakes, but you don't dwell on it. You don't let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space. - Johnny Cash think faith is incredible important because you will become overwhelmed with what's happening and you will have waves of grief, but when you turn to your faith, I believe God will give you waves of grace to get through it.- Joel Osteen Motivate yourself ~ Share & Inspire Others!

I love you and would never leave

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonged to him, and the other to the Lord. When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. he noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life. This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it. “Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you, you’d walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that at the worst times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. How could you leave me when I needed you the most?” The Lord replied, “My precious, precious child, I love you and would never leave you. During your times of suffering and when you see only one set of footprints, it was then

Son’s Last Letter to His Mom

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Will being tears in your eyes I went to a party Mom, I remembered what you said. U told me not to drink, Mom,So I drank soda instead. I really felt proud inside, Mom, The way you said I would. I didn’t drink and drive, Mom, Even though the others said I should. I know I did the right thing, Mom, I know you are always right. Now the party is finally ending, Mom, As everyone is driving out of sight. As I got into my car, Mom, I knew I’d get home in one piece. Because of the way you raised me, So responsible and sweet. I started to drive away, Mom, But as I pulled out into the road, The other car didn’t see me, Mom, And hit me like a load.:( As I lay there on the pavement, Mom, I hear the policeman say, “The other guy is drunk,” Mom, And now I’m the one who will pay. I’m lying here dying, Mom…. I wish you’d get here soon. How could this happen to me, Mom? My life just burst like a balloon. There is blood all around me, Mom, And most of it is mine. I hear the

Some old men can still think fast

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An elderly man in Florida had owned a large farm for several years. He had a large pond in the back. It was properly shaped for swimming, so he fixed it up nice with picnic tables, horseshoe courts, and some apple, and peach trees. One evening the old farmer decided to go down to the pond, as he hadn’t been there for a while, and look it over. He grabbed a five-gallon bucket to bring back some fruit. As he neared the pond, he heard voices shouting and laughing with glee. As he came closer, he saw it was a bunch of young women skinny-dipping in his pond. He made the women aware of his presence and they all went to the deep end. One of the women shouted to him, ‘we’re not coming out until you leave!’ The old man frowned, ‘I didn’t come down here to watch you ladies swim naked or make you get out of the pond naked.’ Holding the bucket up he said, ‘I’m here to feed the alligator.’ Some old men can still think fast.

Thanks a lot dad. YOU ARE MY LIFE.

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There was a boy who was sent by his parents to a boarding school. Before being sent away this boy was the brightest student in his class. He was at the top in every competition. He was a champion. But the boy changed after leaving home and attending the boarding school. His grades started dropping. He hated being in a group. He was lonely all the time. And there were especially dark times when he felt like committing suicide. All of this because he felt worthless and that no one loved him. His parents started worrying about the boy. But even they did not know what was wrong with him. So his dad decided to travel to the boarding school and talk with him. They sat on the bank of the lake near the school. The father started asking him casual questions about his classes, teachers and sports. After some time his dad said, ‘Do you know son, why I am here today?” The boy answered back, “to check my grades?” “No, no” his dad replied, “I am here to tell you that you a

delete the numbers

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Sometimes you just have to erase the messages, delete the numbers and move on. You dont have to forget who that person was to you but you just have to accept that they arent the same person anymore.

There is no recipe for a perfect relationship

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There is no recipe for a perfect relationship but we can enhance it with simple gestures that mean so much to a loving heart; a kiss when you leave, a hug when you come back, a text in the middle of the day that reads “I miss you” and the promise that you will make each other a priority when you are together. ~Brigitte Nicole

You are richer than you think.

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If you have family that loves you, a few good friends, food on your table and a roof over your head.You are richer than you think.

Change is the only constant.

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That’s a common expression, one that I think is really true—especially when it comes to human nature. Try to remember the things that occupied the center of your thoughts 20 years ago. Chances are you have a different set of concerns that consume your mental energies now. You may even find yourself marveling now at the things you used to care so passionately about. That's because life changes us. There is an amazing journey each of us is on, where we explore something in depth for a while and then we stop obsessing about it. It moves into the background. Maybe we’ve outgrown it. Maybe we’ve put systems in place to deal with it in an automatic way. Some things that were once central to our daily purpose fade into insignificance or get entirely forgotten. Some things re-emerge to take center stage again. The point is, this cycle of change is going to keep happening. Last week I wrote about the importance of preparing for growth in an economic and practice manag

One day, You mean everything.

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It’s unbelievable how fast people can change. One day, You mean everything. The next day, You don't exist anymore...!!

My moral in life is simple

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My moral in life is simple, you treat me good and I will definitely treat you better :)

She’s the woman.

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memories last forever.

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Life brings tears, smiles and memories. The tears dry, the smiles fade but the memories last forever.

The fable of the porcupine

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It was the coldest winter ever. Many animals died because of the cold. The porcupines, realizing the situation, decided to group together to keep warm. This way they covered and protected themselves; but the quills of each one wounded their closest companions. After awhile, they decided to distance themselves one from the other and they began to die, alone and frozen. So they had to make a choice: either accept the quills of their companions or disappear from the Earth. Wisely, they decided to go back to being together. They learned to live with the little wounds caused by the close relationship with their companions in order to receive the heat that came from the others. This way they were able to survive. The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities. So the moral of the story is: Just learn to live with the

Peace of Mind

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Once Buddha was walking from one town to another town with a few of his followers. This was in the initial days. While they were travelling, they happened to pass a lake. They stopped there and Buddha told one of his disciples, “I am thirsty. Do get me some water from that lake there.” The disciple walked up to the lake. When he reached it, he noticed that some people were washing clothes in the water and, right at that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake. As a result, the water became very muddy, very turbid. The disciple thought, “How can I give this muddy water to Buddha to drink!” So he came back and told Buddha, “The water in there is very muddy. I don’t think it is fit to drink.” After about half an hour, again Buddha asked the same disciple to go back to the lake and get him some water to drink. The disciple obediently went back to the lake. This time he found that the lake had absolutely clear water in it. The mud had settled down a

Advice for the day:

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Don’t burn your bridges if you don’t have a boat!

You are all the same ;)

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One Chinese person walks into a bar in America late one night and he saw Steven Spielberg. As he was a great fan of his movies, he rushes over to him, and asks for his autograph. Instead, Spielberg gives him a slap and says, “You Chinese people bombed our Pearl Harbor, get outta here.” The astonished Chinese man replied, “It was not the Chinese who bombed your Pearl Harbor, it was the Japanese”. “Chinese, Japanese, Taiwanese, you’re all the same,” replied Spielberg. In return, the Chinese gives Spielberg a slap and says, “You sank the Titanic, my forefathers were on that ship.” Shocked, Spielberg replies, “It was the iceberg that sank the ship, not me.” The Chinese replies, “Iceberg, Spielberg, Carlsberg, you’re all the same.”

Supermarket Encounter

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I was walking through the supermarket to pick up a few things when I noticed an old lady following me around. Thinking nothing of it, I ignored her and continued on. Finally I went to the checkout line, but she got in front of me. “Pardon me,” she said, “I’m sorry if my staring at you has made you feel uncomfortable. It’s just that you look like my son, who just died recently.” “I’m very sorry ,” I said to her, “Is there anything I can do for you?” “Yes,” she said, “As I’m leaving, can you say ‘Good bye, Mom?’ It would make me feel so much better.” “Sure,” I said. An odd request, but no harm would come of it. As the old woman was leaving, I called out, “Good Bye, Mom!” As I stepped up to the checkout counter, I saw that my total was $1027.50. “How can that be?” I asked, “I only purchased a few things!” “Your mother said that you would pay for her,” said the clerk. :p

Story about choices and consequences

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Five wise men got lost in the forest. The first one said: I will go left – my intuition tells me that. The second one said: I will go right – there is a reason why right comes from the word rightness. The third one said: I will go back – we came from there, it means I will go out from the forest. The fourth one said: I will go straight – we should move forward, the forest will end and something new will open. The fifth said: You are all wrong. There is a better solution. Wait for me. He found the tallest tree and climbed into it. While he was climbing everyone else scattered towards their own sides. From above he saw where they should go to leave the forest faster. Now he could even see in what order the other wise men will reach the end of the forest. He climbed higher and saw the shortest way. He understood the problem and found the best solution! He knew that he did everything right. And the others were wrong. They were stubborn and they didn’t listen to him

A Gift Of Love

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“Can I see my baby?” the happy new mother asked. When the bundle was nestled in her arms and she moved the fold of cloth to look upon his tiny face, she gasped. The doctor turned quickly and looked out the tall hospital window. The baby had been born without ears. Time proved that the baby’s hearing was perfect. It was only his appearance that was marred. When he rushed home from school one day and flung himself into his mother’s arms, she sighed, knowing that his life was to be a succession of heartbreaks. He blurted out the tragedy. “A boy, a big boy … called me a freak.” He grew up, handsome for his misfortune. A favorite with his fellow students, he might have been class president, but for that. He developed a gift, a talent for literature and music. “But you might mingle with other young people,” his mother reproved him, but felt a kindness in her heart. The boy’s father had a session with the family physician. Could nothing be done? “I believe I could gra

Never try or beg for support from others..

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I dont believe in taking right decisions.. I take decisions & then make them right. So always believe in ur ability & efforts.. Never try or beg for support from others.. Stand alone & face d life as a race.. Then everyone will follow u..

The love of old couple is always real

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People always take the example and Romeo and Juliet as the perfect love story, but they don't think about real relationships, relationship that begin from the very early years of two persons and last till they become Grandma and Grandpa. The love of old couple is always real, as they could live together and forgive mistakes to each other.

Ultimate Message Worth Sharing:

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-Before You Say I Can't, Make Sure You've Tried. -Before You Let Doubts Stop You, Confront Them With Facts. -Before Fear Holds You Back, Go Forward With Faith. -Before You Believe Others Are Better, Show Them What A Winner You Are. -Before You Dismiss Your Dreams, Wait Until They've Come True. -Before You Go Looking For Happiness, Make Your Own Wherever You Are...!

Anything worth having is worth waiting for

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Better to be with no one than to be with the wrong one. Don't rush things. Anything worth having is worth waiting for. Don't love because it is a convenient time for you to, and because you know it will appease others, love because you desire to, and because you are truly in love.

Some Battles Have To Be Fought Alone,

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Some Battles Have To Be Fought Alone, Some Paths Have To Be Crossed Alone, So Never Be Emotionaly Attached With Someone, You Never Know When U Have To Walk Alone…

Meaning of Color and Your Birthday ! Must Try…

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Meaning of color and your Birthday Try this Don’t cheat, if you are honest, this tells the truth. It’s pretty good. Write your answers on a piece of paper, and NO cheating!! The answers are at the bottom. 1. Which is your favorite color out of: red , black , blue , green , or yellow? 2.. Your first initial? 3.. Your month of birth? 4.. Which color do you like more, black or white? 5.. Name of a person of the same gender as yours.. 6.. Your favorite number? 7… Do you like Flying or Driving more? 8.. Do you like a lake or the ocean more? 9.. Write down a wish (a real one). When you’re done, scroll down. (Don’t cheat!) Answers 1. If you choose: RED- You are alert and your life is full of love. Black – You are conservative and aggressive. Green – Your soul is relaxed and you are laid back.. Blue – You are spontaneous and love kisses and affection from the ones you love. Yellow – You are a very happy person and give good advice to those who are down. 2. If your

Sometimes I wish I had never met you

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Sometimes I wish I had never met you, so when I lay in bed at night I would not have anything to be sad about.

sometimes we waste too much time

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sometimes we waste too much time to think about someone that doesn’t think about us for a second..

All we need..........

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All WE NEED IS : Car Love Music

Daddy, i don't know what politics is.

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Daddy , i don't know what politics is ... Son : “ Daddy , I have to write a special report for school , but I don’t know what Politics is .” Father : “ Well , let’s take our home as an example . I am the bread - winner , so let’s call me Capitalism . Your Mum is the administrator of money , so we’ll call her Government . We take care of your need , so let’s call you The People . We’ll call the maid the Working Class and your brother we can call The Future . Do you understand son ?” Son : “I’m not really sure , Dad . I’ll have to think about it .” That night awakened by his brother’s crying , the boy went to see what was wrong . Discovering that the baby had seriously soiled his diaper , the boy went to his parents ’ room and found his mother sound asleep . He went to the maid’s room, where , peeking through the keyhole , he saw his father in bed with the maid . The boy’s knocki

Here are 5 things to do while you’re single:

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In my opinion BEING SINGLE is a chance to learn , grow and understand yourself better , it’s a good opportunity to experience life while your alone , this will be helpful for you in your future Life . Here are 5 things to do while you’re single : 1. Be Independent . There is nothing wrong with being at home mom or with family members , or even being a man who works from home . But until either of these opportunities come into play , you need to make sure you are doing everything possible to provide for yourself , your future family , and your future aspirations . Do your daily activities as usual focus more on being independent . 2. Stop Dating Wrong People . While you’re single , stay away from mindless dating experiences and stop dating people that aren’t right for you . If you know they aren’t your type , don’t give them the time of day . All you are going