I don't know the actual meaning of maturity

I don't know the actual meaning of maturity.
But for me, maturity is when a person hurts
you $ you try to understand their situation
rather than hurting them back.
When you try to understand why you feel hurt
before you blame someone else for your
feeling to understand if they really abused you
(physically, sexually, psychologically, socially,
etc.) or if you are just being jealous, prejudice,
demanding something unreasonable, not
respecting their boundaries or right to say no,
etc. or even misinterpreting the situation

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